New Parent Tips: Handling ages 1-5
1. The first year is the hardest. Spend as much money as you can on services - nannies, amazon, cleaning services (1-2x/wk) & cooks (1-2x/wk) - all are a must. You should spend 75%+ of your HH income this year without blinking. 2. 2yrs 3 months (27 months) is when the pressure will reduce from the first kid. Immediately plan kid #2 - the pediatric recommended gap is 2-3y. 3. You’re signing up for 5 years of intensive care and support. Kids become a lot less pressure at age 5-6 (and that’s why schools at K work). 4. Every year before age 6 is entirely different. 5. If you have 1 kid, you’re signing up for 17 years of parenting and energy exchange. If you have 2 kids, you’re signing up for only 6 years (the 2nd one will work with the first one at age 2-3 and you’re all good). Our kids have just reached 6 and 3 and the pressure is now letting up. Keep expectations clear - life before kids is over. It’s a 6 year journey to stability, and +10y ...